TIKTOKER LISTS REASONS WHY HER LIFE IS BETTER WITHOUT KIDS
Written by Jesse Skelley on September 29, 2025
Ellie Colson, a 37-year-old from the U.K., is going viral for proudly embracing a childfree life. Once engaged and planning a wedding, Colson realized her vision of motherhood was driven by societal pressure, not personal desire. After meeting her partner Karl at 29, the couple agreed early on: no marriage, no kids. Eight years later, they’re thriving — traveling, enjoying hobbies, and spoiling their dogs.
In a TikTok that’s racked up nearly a million views, Colson shared her 10 reasons for staying childfree, including wanting to focus on her career, avoiding the toll of childbirth, and preserving her freedom for activities like hiking and powerlifting. She says she’s happy being the “fun auntie” instead of a mother.
Despite some backlash, Colson feels validated. “Parenthood isn’t for everyone, and equally, a childfree life isn’t for everyone — but that is OK,” she told Newsweek.
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